Faith-based Approaches to
Preventing and Addressing LGBTQ Youth Homelessness

The numbers of youth experiencing homelessness can only be estimated, but we do know for certain that LGBTQia youth, transgender youth especially, are much more likely to experience homelessness than their peers. 
These are youth whose very survival depend on being hidden, often in plain sight.  One youth slept in a tree, in an urban area, next to a busy hotel.  Others find empty building to squat in, or sleep under bridges.  Some sleep hidden in parks.  You may see their tents.  You probably won't.  

Youth homelessness happens for many reasons, often poverty and family disruption are primary factors. LGBTQia youth homelessness often happens because parents kick their kids out.  Best estimates are that 42% of youth experiencing homelessness identify as as queer or LGBT, and 50% of those youth were kicked out by religious parents or families. 

Click to read or download now, the next volume in Parity's FaithForward series, Faith-based Approaches to Addressing and Preventing LGBTQ Youth Homelessness.

An excerpt, 5 Quick Projects for your church or faith-based organization

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From the introduction:
Every youth experiencing homelessness has a unique story and the reasons youth find themselves on the street are varied. Many LGBTQia youth become homeless for economic reasons - their families simply don’t have enough money to provide shelter and food for them. In some cases, adolescent youth are driven from their home of origin by the feeling that they are a burden on an already economically stretched family.

Some LGBTQia youth run away from physical, sexual and verbal abuse the may or may not be related to their sexual orientation and/or gender identity and expression. Others are kicked out by their parents or caregivers, told “Come back when you have straightened up.” Let’s pause here. This is unbelievable, right?

Parents don’t kick their kids out for being LGBTQia, right? Parents DO kick their kids out for being (or even appearing as though they might be) LGBTQia. About half of the youth experiencing homelessness that we have worked with had been kicked out by parents from traditional (not LGBTQia-affirming) religions and faiths.

Two important and unexpected points to note: First, none of these parents hated their child. In fact, all of the parents we worked with thought they were doing the best thing they could for their child. Some had been advised by a religious leader to kick their child out (often to minimize contact with younger, “easily influenced” siblings), others simply thought it would impress upon the child the need to “straighten up”, to “get over it.”

Second, not a single one - not ONE - of the hundreds of homeless youth we worked with ever expressed anything but love and longing for their parents and families. Even after being physically or sexually abused, or being told horrific things, like “I wish you had never been born,” youth defend their parents. In fact, youth often said that they didn’t want anyone to know they had been kicked out, they didn’t want their parents to get in trouble! The irony, of course, is that in many states that value parents rights over children, a parent will not get in trouble but the kicked out child can be arrested.

The good news hidden here is that often, with education and support, families can learn and grow together, becoming a facilitator of positive development for their LGBTQia youth. Faith communities are uniquely positioned to provide this education and support to families. For other LGBTQia youth, positive interaction with their family of origin (or foster family, extended family, etc.) is not possible. For these youth in particular, contact with accepting, affirming, and empathetic adults is absolutely critical. Creating a community and safe space for these youth literally saves lives. And you have the ability to do just this. Keep reading. Click to read or download now.

Table of Contents

Chapter One: Introduction
Chapter Two: Background and Need
Chapter Three: Why Churches and Faith Communities?
Chapter Four: Preventing Youth Homelessness
Why is prevention so important?
What can faith communities do to prevent LGBTQ youth homelessness?
Chapter Five: Addressing Youth Homelessness
Part 1: Quick Tips & Easy Projects
Project 1: Assemble Hygiene Kits
Project 2: Hold an Educational Event
Project 3: Offer LGBTQ Affirming Family Counseling
Project 4: Connect & Create Community for Parents & Families
Project 5: Host Monthly Meals and/or Events for Youth
Highly Recommended Groundwork

Coming next in the FaithForward Series:
Faith-based Approaches to Preventing and Addressing Youth Homelessness Parts 2 & 3
Part Two: Creating a LGBTQ Youth Ministry
Part Three: LGBTQ Youth Curricula and Programming

Click to read or download now, Faith-based Approaches to
Preventing and Addressing LGBTQ Youth Homelessness